Tuesday, March 5, 2019

Jack Frost...We Need To Talk



Hey Jack,

It's over.  Flower's are starting to come out of the ground in my front yard.  Give it a rest.  You've got 15 days to get your stuff and move along.

P.S.  Tell the Groundhog I have some words for him.



You know when I absolutely adore winter?  December 1st - December 31st.  Cold, Snow, Coats, Scarves, Hot Cocoa, Salted Streets, Blankets, Triple Clothes Layering...I love all these things during that time.  

Not so much in March. 😂 

 I don't know if you can tell in these pictures, but that frosty glow around the edges is not a filter or edit I had to do...it's because it was was 9 degrees taking these photos...NINE. N.I.N.E.  And all that cold + sun + snow glare caused this beautiful chilly shot.

There is still beauty to be found in winter, so now that I'm done pouting about it I will try and enjoy it.  Here are some ways I do this...

This coat makes me really happy.  It brings me so many memories.  In college I worked at a Banana Republic Petite store in this uber fancy mall.  This black warm trench was a product of my hard work.  It is a beautiful classic piece that I can wear for a long time, even if it's not right off the press.  I bought it knowing that I would wear it when I was more of a 'woman'. 😂😂 Now I can laugh at how silly...but how right I was! Every time I put it on I remember that my younger self bought it for my adult self, and I smile that she knew me well...even back then.

My mother bought this scarf for me at a random store in our local mall.  I always cut the cloth tags off of my scarves, and I don't remember what exact store she got this from.  I love the tribal print (it brings a bit more fun to such a cold classic coat), as well as the colors.  Anything that has the lighter brown and black colors together makes me swoon.  Wearing brown and black makes me happy, I love the two colors side by side.

The sunglasses remind me of one of the fun adventure shopping trips with Austin.  We have a couple places we always go to, and one of these times I found these beautiful J.Crew sunglasses. The iridescent color of the lenses, tortoise shell frames outlined in gold. 😍 They were made with my heart in mind!  We always went to our shopping places in the spring and summer, so the majority of my best clothes are spring and summer wear.  Great things are to come with warmer weather, including some of my FAVORITES! 


I know this weather won't last much longer, and I will try my best not to make snide comments during the heat of summer!  

Tell me about your favorite coats and winter accessories!

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Thursday, February 28, 2019

Another Brand of Happiness


I do not remember a time when I was not a dreamer.  From my earliest memory, everything I saw had life and noises were full of wonder and mystery.  I was a weird child.  Luckily enough I did have amazing friends that tolerated my strange obsession with fantasy-thinking and loved me for who I was. (Thank you Krystle, Jenny G, Glo, Jenny B, Ashlee, and Kae)

Good thing about weird children is that they grow up to be eccentric adults.  Truth be told, we are just really fun people...you know we are. 😂  There was a magic all around me, and I can still feel it today.  A feeling that starts in your chest and moves outward...it's a calm excitement that has phantom tingles as it travels.  I believe the words that have been circulating around recently are..."spark joy".

In my earlier post about our Minimalism transition, I talked about this a little bit.  You can read about it here.  I want to talk about what happens when all you wear, everyday, are things that create this feeling of joy.  An amazing thing happens...

You feel it.


It is another brand of happiness (a more expensive and well made version), and it shares space with confidence.  I believe this happens because you are connecting to artistic reflections of yourself, granted you've got to do a bit of soul searching at the beginning (hardest but most rewarding part).  There is more to this than just connecting to a article of clothing, its the creativity that helped design it, the skills that made it...a creative-designed-skill that connects you to its Beauty.  It's the same force that keeps us silent starting into each sunrise and sunset.  It's the same pull that draws us to stillness on each beach crashing with gentle waves.  I believe with everything that I am, this is an attribute of God that we are uniting to.  It's something that He wants us to remember about Him.  Like a thank you note that was sent to us, or a sign that leads us back to Himself.


With that said...imagine your life putting on something that genuinely sparks joy for you...everyday.  Think about how your days would start and end differently knowing that you would carry this feeling about you...All Day.  Realize that big things would happen from one small act.  That is why creating an environment around you that carries these 'joy-messages' to you actually changes your life because it transcends created things to the One that Created Everything.  💓

Now, enough of this deep speech.  I LOVE THIS SWEATER!  PomPoms spark joy for me, so do natural colors, and the color white.  Leather and blue jeans will always be a staple in my wardrobe.  Also, something you might not notice is that I do not own a top that has a sharp collar on it.  Those bring me the opposite of joy. 😂  I don't know why, I've never liked them. To be fair, I have cut the collar off of this shirt...like I have on all of my sharp collared shirts.  I make them all mandarin collars.  True story.  Peter Pan collars are fine with me, I just don't own any.

Like I said...Eccentric.  😏





So...what are you waiting for?  Maybe take some time to go through your closet or home and evaluate the items that connect you to something/Someone much greater.  💗

Wardrobe
Jeans and white button down are from H&M, sweater is from T.J. Maxx, belt from Banana Republic, watch band from Amazon.  

Makeup
Tan MakeSense Foundation, Bronze BlushSense, Toasted Rose BlushSense, Copper Rose ShadowSense, Rustic Brown ShadowSense, Onyx ShadowSense, Sandstone Pearl Shimmer ShadowSense, Black LashSense VolumeIntense Mascara, Praline Rose LipSense, Red Glitter Gloss

📷 Iron & Oak


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Monday, February 25, 2019

Separating Self from Stuff


My husband and I were recently having a long in-depth conversation about life (which I love talking to him 😍 in such ways), and I was asked… "who do you want to be”.  I knew I had more issues when all that came to mind were things I felt I wanted, or maybe what I wanted to look like. I had a mental social media feed of everyone else and what they have. That's a problem.

Being the processor I am, it took a couple of days for me to come up with something real and tangible. 



Then when I wrote down what that looked like, I realized that I didn’t have one-single-physical look, but that these qualities would mirror my style, they would reflect on what I gravitated toward, but they were not a single item or look.  I felt more freed from this exercise, and more able to make style choices knowing these were what I wanted, this is what I wanted to imitate.


  • Lead by Jesus/Submitted to God
  • Natural/Real/Honest/Meek
  • Kind/Encouraging/Happy/Loving
  • Emotional/Artistic/Deep/Creative
  • Wise/Discerning/Understanding/Relatable/Helpful
  • Beautiful/Comfortable/Confident
  • Warm/Full of Light & Life/Reflect Creation/Wild

When I looked at my closet, makeup, bedding, decor, books, and such…it now made since and each piece fit closer to me than it had before.  Style comes from Self…self should not come from your style.  Maybe take time to write down who you want to be, then look at what you love and see how it all makes sense…think about donating the things that do not belong or that don’t make you happy.

I start to lose myself when I focus on style, clothes, makeup, ‘things’, and not start with self.   It looks like this… I am scrolling social media and I see a person or company that captures my attention and appears to have so much going for them, and in such a beautifully documented way!  I attach their style to who I want to be because of the beauty they have displayed.  I start yearning for their beauty-life for myself, instead of seeing the beauty they have reflected, admiring it, and be inspired by it instead of wanting to become it.  Don’t be afraid to produce your own personal beauty through being inspired by someone else’s.  Take courage, work hard, and create your own Beauty through the stimulation of your social media feed.  Can you image how much greater our feed will become if we take in the beauty that we see and create our own personal version?



📷 by Iron & Oak 

Sweater from Simply Southern - Leggings & Glove/s from Target - Hat from C.C. Beanie - Boots are Vintage 1970s Thom McAn - Bag is Vintage Gun Club Sportswear 


Thursday, February 14, 2019

New Kind of Valentine's Day


I thought of something while driving today.  My very wise, beautiful, hilarious, fun, and successful friend recently posted  her & her husbands’ thoughts about Valentine's Day.  She said “If your significant other is nice to you each day and treats you right on a daily basis, you shouldn't need a box of chocolates or a forced gift to make you feel special once a year. So if you don't get a card...diamond necklace....or over-sized stuffed animal tomorrow, don't feel like you aren't loved.”

Their business is amazing btw (this is not an affiliated ad or anything like that)…you should check it out and follow them: Spruce Homes

That got me thinking (because I love Valentines Day) what is a the best way to show love on Valentine's Day?  



Commitment…that is a better way to show love.
Daily ins and outs of selflessness…that is a better way to show love. 
Doing something that your partner likes (even if you don’t) everyday…that is a better way to show love. 

So, I decided each year I’m going to make a new commitment to Austin.  Something small, something attainable, something that will truly make him happy and make him know that I love him every day…not just on Valentine's Day.

I can easily write, so a post on social media that has me gushing on and on tells my husband I can write well sometimes.  😂  Action that goes with these words is something he can stand on, something he can remember, something he can treasure. 

Don't get me wrong, we still gave gifts...kinda-sorta.   When we were grocery shopping last night at Aldi's, I received my favorite 85% Cocoa Dark Chocolate Bars and he received his favorite Carmel Coconut Fudge Cookies. 🍫🍪💕  I wanted to share some older pictures (2011-2016) that I keep on my phone because I seriously love them! Our love story is so amazing, and these pictures just help me remember it.




Wednesday, February 13, 2019

Vaca Style - Part Two



The only good thing about waiting 2 weeks to post is that looking at these pictures warms me up from the chilly winter weather we are currently enduring in the Midwest.  #TakeMeBack to the beach is all up in my brain, but these pictures are so special to me.  Not just the outfits 😉. 

Even though my closet is ¼ the size it was, I am still finding so many ways to wear items I already have!  It’s not a lie that I’ve got more spring/summer clothes than fall/winter but having the right sweater can much such a difference.  I can’t wait to continue to share all the different ways to wear a minimal closet!  So much fun! Let me know if you'd like to see certain outfits or styles!

This sweater was originally the only sweater I kept from our minimalism haul.  It’s from Aerie, and I’ve always loved the open neckline and the natural/oatmeal color that goes with black and jean well.  I was able to purchase some more sweaters at TJMaxx while I was on vacation, and I’m waiting for my Instagram feed to showcase these first before I blog about them @meekandwildbeauty .  I wore a simple white tank since the sweater has such open knits.  Shorts are Levi’s from Amazon which are currently the only jean shorts I own and will probably stay that way.  The cute sandals are from Charming Charlie and were a gift from my Daddy.  Austin isn’t such a huge fan of these sandals, but I love them. 

True story about this sleeveless top is that our friend literally texted Austin about it…they knew I would love it.  At our next trip to Target (which was probably that night) it was in our cart.  I haven’t had the pleasure of visiting Austin TX (yet), but I love the name Austin, so I knew this needed to belong in my wardrobe.  This sweater is extra special to me, and I’m sorry to say isn’t available in stores because my Dad purchased this for my mother in 1985.  I have loved this sweater many years and love it even more because it was my mothers.  It’s a treasure of mine for sure!  These cute Converse shoes are from JCPenney, kid sized of course.  They are a complete staple in my closet.  I usually wear them without socks or at least no show socks…but I am notorious for not wearing socks.  Last but not least my favorite jeans from Loft…. you will see much more from Loft in posts to come!

You’ve seen this shirt before on my blog.  Man-O-Man I love this sleeveless shirt.  It’s so soft and feels like those tees that have been worn for 30 years.  Even with the high neckline I still love how it shows the outside of my collar bones.  Of course, the saying is about coffee…which I think is a love language of mine.  The sweater and watch band were Amazon finds.  This sweater was the only item of clothing that I kept that has a snag in it.  It’s on my elbow and an easy fix.  I am always bumping into everything (super clumsy) so it was inevitable.  I am loving Amazon more and more! Beautiful dark jeans from H&M that fit perfectly, and even have a bit of flair at the bottom.  Converse like the picture above are a kid’s size from JCPenney. 




Ryne loved the sand.  This was from the warmest day we were at the beach.  I just keep staring at these pictures hoping I can soak up some of these good vitamins and warmth.  Also, how cool is this starfish!  This was the first time I had seen one alive and well, and although I didn't have the courage to touch it I loved taking in the beauty of it.  Hoping spring is around the corner so we can get more outside time, but until then pictures will do just fine. 💖

Wednesday, January 30, 2019

Vacay Style - Part One


I tried to pack lite for vacation, but I still needed a duffel & overnight bag.  I tell you, it was the sweaters fault…you can’t ‘Marie Kondo’ those any smaller than what I had them.  😆  Oh, and I had a bag for shoes…because…duh.  I thought becoming a Minimalist would change me in a negative way toward style, but so far it has helped me become a better-more fashionable-me than before.  I never put outfits together in the past, and my whole vacation was centered around each item going with a specific piece…and I loved it.




While visiting my parents, they were gracious enough to watch our son while my husband Austin had a day-date (It was so fun!).  I am happy to report that I used my T.J.Maxx gift-card in full and only looked at price tags after I had chosen my favorites!  My husband found some items that I had overlooked, and once I tried them on…they were clearly winners.  I can’t wait to show them to you! EEEEEKKKK!  They are amazing! …but you’ll have to hold in suspense until then.

Other news…I’m still looking for the perfect open back sweater.  I got really close to finding one that I liked on Amazon, and then once I was ready to make the purchase, they became unavailable.  So!  It was not meant to be, but if I see them trending, I will be really mad.  So, we shall see. 😂😆

Here are a couple of family pictures. 😍  It was still pretty cool at the beach when we arrived, but we did have one warm day, and while Ryno was taking a nap Austin and I were able to soak up some Vitamin D (responsibly). 😎

Photograph by Iron & Oak

Austin + Rachel = Love 4Ever 

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Tuesday, January 15, 2019

Minimalism & Me


If you know me at all, you would think that I’d never be on the minimalism train…nor getting close to the station.  I am more than a pack rat, always keeping everything for the ‘what-ifs’.  I’ve had two tee shirts & a jacket since Elementary School for goodness sake!  But this past December, before Christmas my husband Austin (Aud) and I were feeling the weight of ‘more stuff’ in our house and where we were going to put it. 

Our cute house was built in the 1930s, was redesigned before we bought it, and we’ve also torn down a wall, put new electrical in, painted about 10 times, and redesigned our kitchen almost 5 times.  We have two closets, one in each bedroom.  We have a cellar, mudroom, kitchen, 2-bedroom, 1 bath, dining room, and living room.  It was a constant battle where to keep bedding and towels.  Before we had our son Ryne (Ryno), Austin kept his clothes in the 2nd bedroom closet…but once we had a child we needed to pare down.  So, I came up with a solution of keeping two seasons in the closet at a time the rest would be stored in our cellar until a major season change.  This lasted a year or so.    The feeling of not having control over our home was a daily battle.

We both had to get to a place where we were comfortable with what we owned, but also a place where we were ready to only keep our favorite things.  Right before the New Year, we were writing on the same page and ready to go.  We attacked one room at a time.  I was surprised with how much freedom we felt with each room.  Only keeping what made sense, and what we loved, getting rid of things we didn’t know we had or ‘why do we have this still?’.  We laughed at things we had that were broken, torn, or maybe once was a pair of something that hadn’t been a pair for years.  We were on a freakin’ roll, and we were really happy.  Living room: check, Dining room: check, Kitchen: check, Bedroom/Clothes….

This was a tough one for me.  I have clothes that I currently can’t fit in because I am holding onto some weight after having Ryno , all the ‘what if we have something fancy to do too’. What if, what if, what if… I had to let go.  So, I started with everything that had a hole or stain (except for one tee shirt I wear when I dye my hair).  If I didn’t love it, I put it in the donation pile.  Then I realized that I didn’t love a lot of what I had, I was just wearing it because I had it. 💡  Light Bulb.  My whole clothes buying life, I always looked at the price tag first, and the clothing item second or not at all.  When I started piling everything I didn’t love, I realized that the most items I kept were either sentimental (like my mother’s sweater & sweatshirt) and a bit more expensive.  Or well…more than $25.00


We went through everything.  Coats, Jackets, Sweaters, PJs, Undergarments, Tops, Button Downs, Tee Shirts, Socks, Tights/Leggings, Shorts, Pants, Jeans, Bathing Suits…and everything in between. We were pretty proud of ourselves.  We were able to fit in one closet, all seasons, and put our other clothes in the dresser.

Then we watched Tidying Up on Netflix…and after the first episode we hit our clothes again!  This time we donated more and learned how to fold our clothes in a way that neatly showcased everything.  Now we had plenty of room in our closet, and my socks, underwear, tights, hose, shorts, pjs (tops & bottoms), undershirts/tanks, and shorts all fit in a bin under the bed.  Our shoes are lined up on one side underneath the bed, and our robes on the back of the bathroom door.  The dresser now holds winter gear, bedding and towels.  We are ecstatic.

The next week is when it all started making sense…

I was able to keep up on household chores.  For the FIRST TIME in my LIFE. 💪 The sink was clean every night because I was able to wash-up the small number of dishes each evening…it took like less than 10 mins even with Ryno asking us questions and wanting more blueberries every second.  We were able to take time and relax together every evening, and really relax because our chores were done.  The laundry bin was full on Saturday.  I was able to fit everything in one load and folded it (my share & Ryne’s share, Aud puts his own up) and put it away. ONE LOAD Y'ALL! 

Getting ready for work has never been easier, but also, I get to be creative and I really love that.  Everything I own is my favorite, so I know how it fits, I know how to wear it and what do pair it with, and I feel confident every day because…they are my favorite, they make me feel good.  I do have a birthday gift card to TJMaxx burning a hole in my pocket because I only kept 1 sweater, so I will be using that to get a couple of things I do not have and making sure I love them (not just a good price tag, but the item itself).  I’ve been wanting an open back sweater for a couple months now, so we will see if I can find one that is perfect for me.

I’ll be posting more on my what I kept, and what outfits I make.  Follow me on Instagram & Facebook to see more!

My Minimalism is holding onto what I love...period.  For example, my favorite sweatshirt is atrocious. I'm serious, it's hideous but it brings me so much joy.  It's an over-sized, lumpy, electric green-blue sweatshirt that has a black & white long-haired CARPET kitten with bright green eyes. 😳  It was my mothers.  Someone in our church, decades ago made it for her...and I adore it.

Also, I love answering questions so fire away!  I'm excited to answer them!

Who knew that all the mediocre mounds of stuff was not adding to my life, but actually taking away?  And not until I gave it up, I started to receive.  That sounds very familiar to me…

Luke 9:24 Christian Standard Bible (CSB)
24 For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life because of me will save it.


😉

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